Private Schools: The non-Catholic’s Guide to Catholic School

By Michele Blandino

While Catholic schools are largely filled with students of the Catholic faith, there are also a growing number of non-Catholic students in attendance. The reasons why parents are choosing this route may differ: some may desire to safeguard their children from what they perceive to be unsafe conditions in their neighborhood public schools, while others may believe that the Catholic schools offer a more disciplined environment. Regardless of their reasons, these parents usually find that their religious preference is not a factor in determining whether or not their child will be admitted into the school.

Religion is Not Optional

That is not to say that religion is not important. In fact, in most Catholic schools, religion – specifically, the Catholic religion – is the cornerstone of the school’s operation. This means that all students – Catholic, non-Catholic and even non-Christians – are expected to fully participate in religion classes and church services. Students are also expected to pray; the school day usually begins and ends with prayer and in some cases, prayers are also said before the students have lunch. If you are uncomfortable with this, then Catholic school may not be the place for you or your children.

Discipline

While ruler-wielding nuns are generally a thing of the past, many schools are still staffed by religious sisters – albeit a kinder, gentler version. And, one thing that hasn’t changed about the religious sisters is their love of discipline. This means that rules governing things such as dress, grooming and conduct, are strictly enforced. Again, if you anticipate that you or your child will have a problem adhering to a dress code or other types of rules, you may want to consider a different type of school.

An Education Based on the Basics

As a rule, you won’t find too many frills in a Catholic school. What you will find, however, is a strong commitment to the basics of math, reading and phonics. Most schools also offer at least one foreign language and computer classes in addition to the standard social studies, science, history, physical education and music courses. And, depending on the amount of faculty support, the school may offer extra-curricular activities.

How to Decide

The best way to decide if Catholic school is a good fit for your child is to request a visit. Most schools will allow prospective students to visit for a day so that they can get a first-hand look at the school. Take the time to speak with other parents to see what they like – and don’t like – about the school. Remember, it’s not for everyone, but it’s also worth looking into.