Choosing a Martial Arts School for Your Child

By Michele Blandino

The martial arts are probably the most misunderstood of all childhood activities. Because the misconceptions often include vivid images of knife-wielding samurai or bare-handed cinder block breaking, it is often difficult for parents to look beyond these misconceptions in order to see the true benefits of the martial arts.

While most people recognize and appreciate the physical challenges associated with the martial arts, most do not realize that a good program can also instill life-long lessons in focus, self-discipline and respect.

For the sake of this article, let's assume you already know all this and as a result you have decided to enroll your child in a Martial Arts program. You consult your telephone book and find no less than a dozen schools to choose from. How do you decide?

To be sure, there is much to consider. First, you will need to decide on a style, and then choose the school at which to train.

So, where do you begin?

The first step is to settle on a style. There are literally hundreds of styles to choose from, but the most popular are Tae Kwon Do, Karate and Judo.

A Korean art based on kicks, Tae Kwon Do is one of the most artistic martial art forms with moves that utilize a combination of grace and power. Karate is a more traditional form that emphasizes kicks, punches, blocks, strikes and joint manipulation. Judo, unlike many of its counterparts, does not utilize strikes of any kind, rather students employ techniques such as throws, arm-locks, chokes and pins.

The best way to determine if a particular style is right for your child is to observe some classes. Most instructors are happy to let you and your child watch, and even participate in, several classes before making a commitment to their program. Observe how the instructor interacts with the children; does he exhibit patience? Is there an air of respect in the room? Are the children attentive, or do they seem easily distracted?

You should also schedule some time to speak with the instructor individually. Will he be the primary instructor, or will he have others leading classes? If there are other instructors, don't be afraid to ask about their qualifications; some schools have lower ranked (not black belt) students assisting, or sometimes even leading, classes.

Ask about the criteria for advancing students throughout the various belt levels. Do students have to exhibit a certain level of skill competence or are they automatically advanced after a pre-determined period of time? You might be surprised at what you will learn.

Next, ask about fees. Some schools will require you to sign a contract while others will allow you to pay month by month. Fees vary widely and can range from $50 a month to well over $200 per month. Some schools collect a fee each time your child tests for the next level, others do not. Some schools will offer generous discounts if you enroll multiple children. Be sure to ask.

In the end, it is important to find a school where both you and your child will be comfortable. Taking the time to find the right fit now can very well turn into a positive long term relationship.