Using Resort Babysitters

By Michele Blandino

In an attempt to lure more families, many resorts are making themselves over to be all-inclusive, family-friendly vacation destinations. In an effort to capture the varying interests of their guests, these resorts offer a slate of activities geared toward different age groups, kids’ camps, special menus and even on-site babysitting services.

For parents, having the kids participate in some of these activities can provide a welcome break and allow for some “adult” time. It also provides kids the opportunity to try new things and meet new people.

And while many parents generally do not hesitate to sign their kids up for group activities, they do seem to exercise more caution when it comes to using the resort’s babysitting service.  Their concerns are well-founded especially when you consider that most people put a great deal of effort and thought into selecting the babysitter they use at home. So, how can you be assured that the babysitters used by the resort are trustworthy and that your children will be in good hands while you enjoy an evening out? Here are some things to consider:

Establishing Credibility

First, ask about the sitter’s credentials. Most resorts have a director for their children’s programs; this person is often also in charge of scheduling babysitters. At the very least, a babysitter should be certified in CPR and have basic First Aid skills. You will also want to be sure that the babysitter has had a criminal background check – be sure to ask about the resort’s screening process. If you are working with a travel agent, ask them about any feedback they may have received regarding the resort’s babysitting service. Likewise, if you have friends who have vacationed at the same resort, ask for their recommendations.

Finally, if you are vacationing outside of the United States, you will probably also want to be sure that the babysitters used by the resort speak English fluently.

Determine Cost

You should also ask about the price structure; many resorts have set prices for babysitting services which are based on the number of children being cared for. Additionally, there may be minimum charges, surcharges for services after a certain time or number of hours and other costs. Be sure to ask so that there are no surprises.

Establish Rules

Once you have found a babysitter you and your children are comfortable with, you will need to establish the ground rules for the evening. In addition to the typical instructions you leave for a babysitter (bedtimes, contact information, food allergy warnings, acceptable television programs, etc.), you will also need to think about what circumstances (if any) can the children leave the hotel room; what arrangements will you make for the children’s (and sitter’s) meals; and whether or not the sitter can order room service (and up to what amount).

It is also a good idea to ask the sitter to arrive at least 30 minutes prior to your anticipated departure time so that you can get an idea of how he or she will interact with your children. If for any reason you feel uneasy, it is entirely within your rights to cancel your plans, although you may still have to pay for the sitter’s time.